You should have two different pits and two different pumps. Your floor drain/softener waste likely go into a sump pump pit that is not connected to your septic. That just goes outside. The pumps are different too. The one for your bathroom grinds and pumps, its made just for that purpose and goes to your septic system.
Dont ever mix the two systems. Call a plumber if in doubt.
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