(This is the wife here... I'm sick of my cabinets, but my husband says no to any big spending so I'm wondering if anyone can give me some ideas for them... The house was built in 1989, and the cabinets are original if that helps. Can I paint them or stain them or what...? I don't think it's real wood. Here is what they look like: It's not letting me upload the "good" picture of them, (it's too big or something) so here's a not so good one, but hopefully you can tell what I'm dealing with). Thank you for any help!