Any site.
Mostly you have to scroll down.
& the songs I play on YouTube usually have some unusual image to draw you in.
For sure, men are drawn to women dancing (it implies health & youth) although men also want novelty & so there is a video of grandmas dancing to the "slum dogs" theme. Good for them.
I've never done marketing. How do they reel in the women?
I have my guesses but I'll let someone else post their ideas.