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I have a 2 and 4 year old and ADHDMan, I don't know how you guys find the time to get so much done! Maybe you just don't have multiple small kids?
I put the moulding on one more side of my screened-in porch. Same 80 sqft screened-in porch I've been updating about intermittently on this thread for weeks. Gives you a sense of how slow I have to go...still have the long side to do, too.
Yeah, he pretty much told her "B*** I have the title and you aren't paying me anything!" But I think she's still planning to give him trouble.a trailer has a title just like a car, if the title is in his name, then he has proof of ownership
and he can start the eviction process
to start the eviction process, talk to your local sheriff
If you mean printed out? Sadly, No. However, there might be some text messages discussing the arrangement. I advised him to screenshot them and print them out in case he needs to show proof to the amount she agreed to pay him and the arrangement of when/why he let her move in. It was very shortly before tax returns were supposed to come in and her taxes were still set to be directly deposited to his account. There won't be any tax returns this year because she quit her job last year and hasn't worked and has no intention of working because she doesn't want him to get any $.@zannej:
Did your friend get anything in writing from his ex before she moved in?
Thanks. In her case, there wasn't even a rental agreement. She had agreed to buy the trailer and pay him in full but she never made any payment and now has expressed that she has no intention of paying. IMO, that is basically theft. Especially since she started throwing his stuff out of the closet and is threatening to sell his possessions.Your friend needs to have the sheriff serve eviction papers on her for non payment of rent
he needs to talk to the sheriff to find out the procedure in your state
Yeah, find those texts, screenshot them, print them out, back them up to 2 hard drives and the cloud! I don't even know if claims courts will accept that but it's better than nothing. I guess they might be able to subpoena data from the cell phone records too.If you mean printed out? Sadly, No. However, there might be some text messages discussing the arrangement. I advised him to screenshot them and print them out in case he needs to show proof to the amount she agreed to pay him and the arrangement of when/why he let her move in. It was very shortly before tax returns were supposed to come in and her taxes were still set to be directly deposited to his account. There won't be any tax returns this year because she quit her job last year and hasn't worked and has no intention of working because she doesn't want him to get any $.
LOL. If that was about the tree stuff, he got our mutual friend (the one with the trailer/lousy ex problems) to come out. I watched them work-- primary guy cut the trees down and then both of them loaded up the trees/branches in to a trailer on the back of a john deer mower (which currently has the mower part removed pending repair). Second friend was driving the mower and hauling things out to a pile while more trees got cut down and the main guy was giving instructions and pushing the mower when it got stuck. They both nearly got heat stroke. I was only out there for about 10 minutes (standing in the shade) and I was sweating like crazy within a minute. They got a LOT of work done. They intend to come out earlier in the day next time. First guy took $100 and gave the other friend the $50. Other friend also fixed mom's laptop, gave tech support on her desktop (hard drive failed), and unjammed the garbage disposal (I got the glass out of it and I had the tool to turn the blades but I couldn't get it to turn).
Yeah. Some of it my friend brings on himself for letting the ex use him as a doormat. Although, her current fiance felt so bad about the situation, that he actually paid my friend a little bit toward the purchase of the trailer. My friend said that if the couple splits, he'll let the fiance stay and kick the girl out. She doesn't even have custody of either of the kids right now. She's unemployed and could be watching the kids-- but she has them staying with grandparents. Her son with her ex-husband is with her father and the daughter she has with my friend is staying with my friend's grandparents (until he can get a bedroom fixed up for her at his house).Yeah, find those texts, screenshot them, print them out, back them up to 2 hard drives and the cloud! I don't even know if claims courts will accept that but it's better than nothing. I guess they might be able to subpoena data from the cell phone records too.
I feel bad for your friend but it goes to show: always get something in writing. Always. Don't care if it's your girlfriend, your ex-girlfriend, your best friend, your mom. You just never know what crazy stuff people will pull. Even innocent misunderstandings can blow up. It feels awkward and impersonal and you'll always get people shaking their heads saying "it was different back in my day when everyone just trusted each other and helped each other out" but that's better than being in your friend's position now. Or his ex's, to be honest: ripping off other people comes with its own stress, and if you believe in an afterlife...
glad you are okToday I haven't done anything. Yesterday I have Gall Bladder surgery. All went well.
Havasu, you inspired me! I bought a Mother's kit and did the headlights on my car today. It was tricky since my Dewalt died, so I was using a corded power drill where you get variable speed by trigger pressure alone, but I got it done. They look fantastic.I used Mother's Mag polish and a Mother's foam ball, and with about 30 seconds attached to my drill, my daughter's headlights are clear once again. First pic has only one headlight polished to see the dramatic difference.
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