Thanks inspectorD, I decided to watch my washer do a full cycle and noticed that just before the spin, the drain pump would run for about 5 minutes, then the lights would flash. There was still water in the tub, so I figured it was the drain pump. I poured a bottle of Liquid plumber into the tub and let it sit for a bit and ran the drain cycle. it seemed to work a lot better, so I did it again, now it seems to work. I guess all the hair and fabric softener built up in there and just plugged it to the point it couldn't drain enough. I'll see if it works after a few loads of laundry
Over budget and behind schedule...
That's how I roll :)