We are glad to have you; come on in and drag up a chair. It is normal for self contracted homes to take 2 years so, you are right on schedule. As a DIY'er who has been there, done that you could probably be a big help to others who are contemplating the same thing.
It takes a strong marriage to endure home building, doesn't it?
If you see a thread you want to share your experiences with, don't hesitate to jump right in. We will do the same for you two if you have any questions or problems.
Again, welcome to the Forum