hi 1vic,
above you wrote ...
"With the breakers on, at the control box I get about 77-78 v from the red and black wires (pump), and 1__ v from the white and black wires (house). "
I just joined this forum and you're my first victim ..
Sounds to me like voltage is getting from the breaker to the pressure control switch ok ... but it's not getting past the switch to the pump.
To test the pump motor electrically, from where the pressure control is, you could ..
turn off the breaker
remove from the pressure switch, the black and red wires that go to the pump
make sure the battery in your multimeter is good
set your multimeter on "ohms" or "continuity" at one of its lower ranges
touch the meter's probes to the red and black wires going to the pump
the meter should show a certain amount of "resistance" .. probably 50 ohms to 300 ohms. I'm guessing about those figures, though. If the motor and the wiring leading to it are ok, there will be some kind of reading.
if the meter shows nothing (infinity, hundreds of thousands of ohms, or resistance is off the scale) .. electricity is not moving through the wires and the pump motor .. telling us that a wire is broken or burned, an electrical connection to the pump (hopefully above ground) has failed, the the pump motor has failed, or the thermal protector device on the pump motor has failed.
If the pump passes these tests, I'd look next at the pressure control switch.
thx,
Ed