IMO you have two options.
One is to isolate everything you will be needing temporary power to with its own outlet and plug and then run extension cords thru the home and pull those plugs and plug them into the gen. I believe this is what you are set up to do now.
The second way would be to use a proper transfer switch system where you pick out some number of circuits say six and then have a gen sized for those six circuits and when it is used there is a failsafe method of disconnecting from the power company and connecting part of your home to the gen.
Here is an example of one.
Reliance Controls 30 Amp 250-Volt 7500-Watt Non-Fuse 6-Circuit Transfer Switch Kit-3006HDK - The Home Depot
Doing any other method of homemade jumpers and needing to make sure power is disconnected manually is just asking for trouble. All you need is one mistake and you are going along fine and the power comes back on and there is a back feed, or worse yet someone from the utility gets electrocuted from your back feed working on the line. You could back feed to your neighbor and he may be running a gen also.
The best way is get a pro out and have him sort out your panel and possibly rewire some of your house so six of your circuits cover your main needs. For instance maybe you would like your microwave to work and refrigerator in the kitchen. Then furnace and water pump. Maybe TV or radio and internet and one light in each room. Your house may or may not be wired to suit this.
One is to isolate everything you will be needing temporary power to with its own outlet and plug and then run extension cords thru the home and pull those plugs and plug them into the gen. I believe this is what you are set up to do now.
The second way would be to use a proper transfer switch system where you pick out some number of circuits say six and then have a gen sized for those six circuits and when it is used there is a failsafe method of disconnecting from the power company and connecting part of your home to the gen.
Here is an example of one.
Reliance Controls 30 Amp 250-Volt 7500-Watt Non-Fuse 6-Circuit Transfer Switch Kit-3006HDK - The Home Depot
Doing any other method of homemade jumpers and needing to make sure power is disconnected manually is just asking for trouble. All you need is one mistake and you are going along fine and the power comes back on and there is a back feed, or worse yet someone from the utility gets electrocuted from your back feed working on the line. You could back feed to your neighbor and he may be running a gen also.
The best way is get a pro out and have him sort out your panel and possibly rewire some of your house so six of your circuits cover your main needs. For instance maybe you would like your microwave to work and refrigerator in the kitchen. Then furnace and water pump. Maybe TV or radio and internet and one light in each room. Your house may or may not be wired to suit this.